Quando i privilegiati dovrebbero essere imbarazzati dai loro privilegi…
«Una donna normale deve certo dotarsi di una buona dose optimism. For her it is more difficult, I know ... I know it's difficult to combine work with motherhood but I think those are few who can really afford to stay home for months. We must agree to make sacrifices. " [Maria Stella Gelmini - Corriere della Sera]
Mariastella Gelmini, after giving severe shocks to the system from school, through the doctrine on the use of the apron, the beneficial effects of voting behavior and Health cracks in the walls of schools that allow children to school at room temperature, the Minister insisted today, they also seek to open our horizons concerning the protection della maternità, e lo fa con un’intervista ora tenta di distruggere l'autostima delle donne comuni sostenendo che ogni mamma, come lei, dovrebbe tornare al lavoro a pochi giorni dal parto.
In una fase storica in cui le prospettive per il futuro ci terrorizzano, ecco che pur di far quadrare i conti ci si allontana dai diritti elementari e si rinnegano valori fondamentali come la maternità.
L'egoismo aumenta e si va sulla difensiva, abituandoci cosi a costruire le nostre glorie sui fallimenti altrui. Oggi tocca alle donne con il colpo di grazia della Ministra Gelmini.
Gentile Ministro,
parlo per me, una donna che ha avuto la prima maternità da adult who was and is self-employed, from a privileged (at least nobody can do me the shoes, if not the law of the market!).
I had to chase the time, however, between a space and another, continuing to ensure the management of the house, baby just arrived, often too tired and weak from a pump, a cry, and a strong sense of guilt accompanied me at work.
I'm sure strokes, competitiveness and money because I found it impossible to return to work after only three months after delivery.
I still have my sink wells in which blacks and also of regret at having to leave my son, so soon, in the care of another person for several hours a day, because I had to work, because the choice was forced, I believe, not to address it with a smile!
not relying on parents, I made use of outside help as early as the third month, in fact. I tried to have access to nursery schools but, in Naples, you're not a prisoner or an accident, six out of every list!
And for other workers, dependents and those with an income that does not allow a baby-sitter, who will look after their children? You Sir? I wonder
Minister, as is possible after 10 days postpartum return to concentrate on the job? Who can consider this possibility even when going to the grocery store can be daunting to reveal?
Maybe I am a normal mom, with all the limitations of the case ... but the matter is this: you can not make a competition to see who the first return to work, there is no ability to worst, there are ... there are only Wonderwoman Moms!
is offensive all'accudimento deny the right of her son that the law seeks to impose through compulsory maternity leave.
Minister, you know the meaning of the term "binding"? Motherhood should be protected as a right, a right of the child's mother but also in view of its future balance. A right which should be safeguarded to protect our children!
What we should talk about is the sustainability of maternity and leads through public nursery schools to cover the needs of their reality, with free recreation, municipal recreation centers.
Let's talk about decent working conditions for all, ease of access and equality also protected in the free choice of parenthood. I would expect it to intervene as a guarantor of equal opportunities for all, for a state that knows how to protect its citizens guaranteed health care, education, I would expect at least a hope ...
In this sense, maybe it's better to be hopeful, I do not know what ottimistima be lawful but that's another story ...
Minister Gelmini, unfortunate that these problems are not understood by a woman who stands at an altitude of 153,470
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The privileges of a few can not be considered laws.
Look around!
Daniela Villani
Mother, woman, Neapolitan, active citizens
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